Need Support After Friend was "Real With Me"

2021.12.03 01:18 AsYouWish20 Need Support After Friend was "Real With Me"

Hey all, I (29F) finally met my LDR partner (M31) of over a year and a half for the first time last month. It was the most amazing wonderful week of my entire life. He was everything I knew he would be and so much more. I have never loved anyone the way I love this man, I didn't even know these feelings were possible. We discussed the future and how we both felt that after meeting we had zero doubts about wanting to take our relationship to the next level (close the gap).
We both of course know that in most cases a K-1 Visa will be needed (we're international and I'm American). I should note, I'm not tied to us settling here, but we both agreed as I'm so established here, and his career is easier to move, this would be our first plan. I know some headhunters and recruiters here and in some other major nearby cities and they've agreed to try and help find him a job (if possible). Our first choice would be for him to come here with a job, he does have a specialized degree, and there is a demand here for his role, though we both know this will still be an uphill battle, and that the reality is we may have to go to a K-1 when we're ready (we want to meet some more times before going that route so we're starting with the job first).
I'm posting because I am coming off this wonderful high of us having had the most amazing visit, how insanely in love with him I am was gut punched by "advice" from a childhood friend. My friend is an avid 90 day fiancé watcher (admittedly I have never seen the show). She told me to basically scrap any idea/hope of him getting a job, not even worth bothering to try... and that even if I decided to do the K-1 option to be prepared to wait 5 years to even be able to live together. That I would have to "attend events alone while everyone else has someone" and "what will this mean for you having kids." And that she is "super informed" as the show "is highly educational regarding realistic immigration." I have no clue how accurate that show is.
I'm just looking for some support, and maybe even some advice. I didn't tell my partner what she said (yet), though him and I did talk about recognizing that this (immigration) is going to be difficult, that we will likely hit multiple bumps in the road, that we're both comfortable waiting and the relationship is worth it to both of us to pursue. It just sucks that I am still flying on the biggest high, to be gut punched like this... I would move mountains to be with this man, I'm willing to give up my citizenship as well. Would love some verbal hugs, thanks to anyone who reads all of this. We have 3 trips planned already for 2022, so at least I have that to look forwards to.
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2021.12.03 01:18 J_Beyonder New kid on the block is by themselves.

Screw my coworkers. I'm the new kis at work. Literally none of my work associates talk to me when customers aren't around. They don't look out for me. A customer berated me and they didn't say one word. They actually look down when they were yelling. Screw them!! Screww them get the F out of my face if they ask me for help again. When a customer got unruly with them I redirected them.
How was your day?
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2021.12.03 01:18 gargoyleinargyle Best way to refer to an ex who I am unsure is super “out”?

To start with, this ex and I had a very toxic relationship (I will not go so far as to say I was sexually assaulted by her, but I often felt emotionally manipulated into sex) and while we did have some contact a few months ago where she shared that she was trans, it brought up a lot of trauma for me that I would rather not revisit by re-establishing continued contact. So asking her is out. But she was a huge part of my life for several years and we do have mutual friends from many years ago. She added me on social media and I noticed she is super out but I don’t think anyone in her family follows her.
I still talk to several of our former mutual friends (I’m still close with them, she lost touch over 15 years ago) and occasionally people want to reminisce about the time period in my life when I was with my ex and it’s taken a lot of verbal gymnastics/redirection in conversation to avoid saying her name and pronouns.
It’s possible that she is not out to her family and I do live in a metro area where people tend to be very interconnected (fun fact: my current best friend from college lives above one of my ex’s former friends from high school and it’s just a weird coincidence.)
I did already confide to my best friend, partially because I’ve been going through some sexual identity stuff with my partner recently coming out as nonbinary. Turns out I’ve never been in a serious long term relationship with a man despite having 2 very serious multi-year relationships and I wanted to work through that. She ended up correcting my ex’s pronouns while hanging out with her downstairs neighbor when he happened to tell a story that included my ex, so maybe this question is coming too late.
What is the most respectful way to move forward if I really, really don’t want to talk to her? Switch to current name/pronouns? Use dead name/former pronouns around people who are unaware of her current identity?
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