Day care troubles

2021.12.03 02:01 savvyroma Day care troubles

We have had an ongoing issue where my 2.5 YO has had blood with his stool at day care. I am told it is bright red, and this never occurs as home. So I've felt pretty confident he is forcing the poop and is tearing some. Not the end of the world, happens to me sometimes to. Since it only occured there and he seems in good health otherwise I havent felt concerned. (I do finally have a doctor's app. Coming up to confirm there isnt something actually going on and maybe just needs a stool softener)
The day care was voicing their concern about it. Understandable. The other day after one of these incidents we stumbled upon the fact that they have been sitting him on the toilet to poop. Something he doesn't do at home. I explained we have had 0 luck getting him to go potty in a toilet at home. I assumed after this they would take that into consideration and lay off the toilet. (He is not ready for potty training, point blank, hes not there yet.)
So a few days ago there is this whole fever thing (second time this month. Policy is 72 hours with no symtoms, we get him home and he has no fever). They called my phone 1 time, dads phone 1 time, left voicemails. Neither of us caught the call. They did not reach out in their day care app or call the emergency contacts. So when I go in to pick him up one lady explains they called and what not and whispers: 'if you go an hour without returning our call I am suppose to contact CPS'. This alone makes my stomach drop and scares the shit out of me. Then they go about oh the fever after nap time yadda yadda, then they bring up blood in his stool again and I try to more sternly express that I think its from them putting him on the toilet but they dont feel the same. There was no talk about backing off of the toilet.
This being said I have never once received a photo of his bloody stool. I never received a photo of these tempatures they are getting (and once again I bring him home and temp him myself with no fever at all. Acts totally normal. Ect.) And after having to find last minute child care or miss work for a second time this month+all these toilet issues I found a new center. Its the begginning of the month and I told them I wont be returning. Now they wanna hit me with a 2 week notice fee.
I get that I probably signed something that said I needed to give notice but at this point he has been there 4 days in the last 16 because of the holiday and everything else, and I dont feel comfortable with him in there care anymore.
Do you guys think I have any fight in this to not pay the almost $600? Why do i have to pay them when I dont even feel safe leaving my kid here at this point. Idk. Ive been so overwhelmed and I know I probably can't get out of it but it seems so unfair. If I feel that my kid is unsafe in ANY way at all why should I have to pay a fee?
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2021.12.03 02:01 BabyYodaStuntDouble I feel ashamed

I’m on day 12 of being dumped. I’ve been having my ups and downs. I’ve been doing great trying to occupy myself with my school work but I just don’t have much energy. During school work I’d wait for him to text me back (toxic trait) from him being at work or working out or doing whatever tf he was doing. I was lucky enough to get 6 texts out of the day from him. He just worked at carmax parking cars for 8 hours?? Then like work out and see his mommmyyy
I’ve went through the stages of crying so much to feeling like an independent bad b and now I’m back at the depressed stage but this time I’m mad at myself.
There were so many red flags but I chose to make excuses because I adored this guy so much. I was the only one putting effort into conversations, I was waiting for him all the time, I told him I need more boyfriend time cos I haven’t seen him in about 3 weeks at that time and his response was “soon”. His excuse for not seeing me for so long was mental health and he didn’t want to leave the house and he was a wreck and I was just supporting him but god it sounds so stupid.
With the mentality I had before him or like if my friend was to go through this is tell her to leave this man ASAP. My confidence was so freaking high and he tore me down. Why couldn’t he just have ended it sooner if he wasn’t feeling us, I just feel like a fool who was strung along and played dumb while he knew it all along.
The thing I hate the most is I realize how much he was terrible to me and HES the worst example of a boyfriend in my book but a part of me wants him back. I wanna hear his stupid voice and feel his arms and see his legs in those stupid pink shorts I loved on him. I always always missed him.
Why am I like this? I’m just mad and confused and I feel like a fool for being with him.
Me really just publicly venting. Rough time today.
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2021.12.03 02:01 PLimw Kaneki and his mother

Did Kaneki ever come to terms with his own mother issues? It was a reason of why he was so insecure and desperate for affection.
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so, im running vmware on my pc so that i can have macOS to use garageband. yet, whenever i try to open garageband it gives me a pop up saying that its "unable to utilize graphics: this typically happens when running an unsupported virtual machine environment, or when running on an unsupported mac." anyone know of any work-arounds?
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Looking for some 3060TI's so I can finish mine and my cousins' gaming setups.
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I am trying to remote control my linux server from my windows 10 pc
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2021.12.03 02:01 NorskDaedalus Chapter 54: Animus

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I need you guys to absolutely blow up u/The_Nuke12 dms bc he's sleeping and I want to make him mad
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2021.12.03 02:01 redditnibba123 Hall Pass onto neighbor's sub is " Mudi Hater"

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2021.12.03 02:01 VeonZ64 Pokémon Shining Pearl Nuzlocke: Part 9 | Road to Veilstone City

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2021.12.03 02:01 ogiota Maximum TPS 1 billion?

so we're looking at heirachical sharding here.
iota (or shimmer) = layer0 assembly = layer1 assembly sub chains = layer2
many assembly like layer 1 chains could be spawned, each hosting many sub chains.
assuming each layer can sustain 1000 tps:
max aggregate tps is 10003 = 1 billion tps.
interchain comms are capped 1000tps of course, but theoretically if the sub chains use 1000x more on chain tps than interchain comms then this limit could be achieved. chunking interchain comms to fill tx payloads could perhaps bump that 1000 limit up?
and whats to stop a layer2 sub chain from spawning some layer3 chains?
this could be BIG.
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2021.12.03 02:01 OliverMarkusMalloy Georgia teen manufacturing 'ghost guns' fatally shot his sister during firearms sale gone bad

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2021.12.03 02:01 Plenty_Celebration_4 Best methods for living long?

I've got several hundred hours in CK3 at this point, and I know the ins and outs of the game pretty damn well by now. But one thing I've not been able to get right quite yet is long life. Most characters of mine, if you don't focus on anything health wise, die between 60-70. My record is age 86, where he had whole of body and a few other health traits. I know that whole of body automatically gives you a lot more years, and so do traits like herculean.
However, I'm curious if there is a way to get to over 100 without breeding for it. Also, as a side note, I'm curious what your records are for age, without exploits/cheats of course. What is the oldest POSSIBLE to get I wonder?
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