2021.10.18 06:12 ListenToFuzzyGrapes fuzzygrapes - wizard imposing
2021.10.18 06:12 menchii_ How can I practice more compassion towards myself? I find that interacting with people is linked to so much suffering and I'm too hard on myself for my mistakes
This has been an ongoing problem for me when I have a relationship, be it a friendship, family or a romantic one. Interacting with others has a lot of suffering involved, at least from my point of view. I have a hard time with family for example, when they mention something that reminds me of a bad experience, when a family member says something racist and I try to gently talk to them so they can reconsider what they said, when I feel like I may not be visiting enough or feel like am not grateful enough for what they do for me.
I feel this pressure too and suffering when I am with friends and realize maybe I'm being too judgemental towards someone else, or I could have said something differently, or that I'm not being nice enough as I would like. These things don't really beat me up as much as relationships do. I find so much joy yey so much suffering attached to having a partner.
I don't know how to handle some situations and feel horrible when I've done something wrong, or overthinking what I could have said better. It's hard to face some common issues such as insecurities, jealousy, maybe bad experiences we're dragging down from past relationships that we may not even notice. I have a lot of trouble with the thought of being too egocentric or selfish in my relationship. I'll feel bad when I get excited and talk too much and the other person hasn't said a lot. I am too sensitive and don't know how to deal with being hurt, or the thought of someone I love harming me, forgiveness and being able to really let go and trust.
I feel sometimes an insecurity and wonder if I'm good enough, if this person is happy with me. I suffer knowing my boyfriend is going through a hard time with his father's recent death and not knowing what the best way of helping is, not being able to take the pain away, what to do.
It's just easier to be alone, when I don't have to see anyone and am in tune with my values and aware of how I act, I sometimes wish it would be easier to interact with others and not feel this way, specially with relationships.
I don't really know where I was going with this but I have no guideance, no temples in my country, no one not even my mother close so I always come here for advice, I would deeply appreciate any insight on this.
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2021.10.18 06:12 HorrorAcrobatic7158 When did you shit at the wrong place and the wrong time, what happened after and why?
2021.10.18 06:12 Mega_Knight8891 A funny title
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2021.10.18 06:12 gtemov Looking for a team to play through the missions on Intense on ps4/5. I have 5 missions left on Intense and i can not beat with randoms or bots. Leave ur psns in the comments :)
Looking for a team to play through the missions on Intense on ps4/5. I have 5 missions left on Intense and i can not beat with randoms or bots. Leave ur psns in the comments :)
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2021.10.18 06:12 sequoiaya (Selling) CANADIAN Digital Codes
All codes are from 4k Blu Ray purchases. However, I cannot guarantee they will redeem in 4k from the digital provider.
- ET The Extraterrestrial ($4)
- The Revenant ($5)
- Jaws ($4)
- Alien ($7)
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2021.10.18 06:12 HistoricaArt I feel bad about making a creepy man pay for my flight but I also don't want to meet him
I met this man online some time ago and we started chatting. He wanted to meet me irl but I lived too far away. So he decided to pay for my flight across three time zones to meet him. So I boarded the flight and here I am.
A week before we are to meet up I ran a quick Google search background check on him. I found that he has an extensive criminal record. He has stalked many women like me in the past. He also steals and scams - anything from laptops to credit cards to cryptocurrency. He has been in and out of jail and mental institutions many times. I found his roommate on social media and started talking to her to ask questions. She told me that she got him evicted and arrested a month ago but he got out of jail the next morning. He had signed the lease under a fake name. She strongly recommends that I avoid him.
The man wants to meet me for dinner next weekend. What to do? I feel terrible about making him pay for the flight but I can't afford to refund the money because I am broke.
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2021.10.18 06:12 Regular_Detective978 My tortes how do you thike?
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2021.10.18 06:12 LordFr4nk maikol
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2021.10.18 06:12 manikantv Yunyun (wallpaper material) by me
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2021.10.18 06:12 Dankerthenyou2 Need Henry to get Knox + 15 for me to win. Do I have a chance?
2021.10.18 06:12 Aranthor After Tonights Game
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2021.10.18 06:12 ariyah_3 Opinions on Bracia?
I saw one thread bashing Bracia and calling her a bitch by the way she acted. One user decided to tone "police" her when there we're so many actors in the story who did worse than her. Let's point out the obvious as to why user feel the need to tone police Bracia.
Firstly, Abby didn't like Ginny from the start and had no reason to not like her. She coerced her to steal and then ended up throwing her under the bus when Ginny was the only one who got caught with $5 earrings while Abby stole multiple items. Abby even decided to slap Ginny but when Max also said something at the table, she only took into consideration to what Ginny said.
People disregard every single character that did bad but as soon as Bracia commented on her outfit, there was a huge problem. People aren't acknowledging Hunter's friends when one of them even body shamed Abby and called her a whale. One even body shamed Ginny and said how she had no ass for a black girl. Don't forget about the teacher, MANG, and others making racist remarks.
I'm confused as to why these people are putting so much attention on to what Bracia said like she's this evil antagonist in the story. She never rose her voice to others, unlike Abby, and was always nice to Ginny and invited her into clubs etc. When she realize how her comment affected Ginny she went on to apologize and admit it was an insecurity of hers but we didn't see any of that while comments we're thrown around on how "exotic" Ginny looked or how "white people had more Starbucks than black people". And let's not forget who accepted her when all of Ginny's friends dropped her after basically ignoring her for the entirety of the episodes.
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2021.10.18 06:12 yellalot101 OMG I'm gonna pull all my hair out....and I'm bald! Anyone got tips? His evades are infuriating! 🤬
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2021.10.18 06:12 Gunner253 Where are all the mk6's at?
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2021.10.18 06:12 Emotional_Board6361 What do you think bout THEOS
2021.10.18 06:12 Chieve How do I know if my current therapist is not for me? (No disrespect to him though)
I am really bad at making quick judgements on people and I don't want to spend a lot of time on a therapist just to realize months later he's not for me.
I only seen him once so far, and everything felt okay for the most part but there were 2 things that irked me...
1) I feel like some of thing things were already being invalidated, I know it's just an introduction since we just met, so he's probably just talking, and we will get into it more later. Maybe my thoughts are distorted but to make a comment on something and invalidating it without hearing why it bothers me and it's not as simple as that bothers me. There is a reason I have those thoughts... I just kinda wish comments weren't made yet until we were ready to discuss it.
2) He recommended a book "Feeling Good" by David D. Burns....and it's almost 700 pages....Like it took me 4 months to read 150 pages in one of my other books that I am actually interested in reading, this one is going to take me so long, and I am not really interested in self-help books...because I can't talk about it, get clarification, and I just don't ever really finish them. Some of the times things feel too good to be true and even when I give the benefit of the doubt I don't know where to start...I am at a therapist because I want to talk about it. Plus the reviews seem mixed... people say good things but it's also technical at times and old fashioned. I don't really know what to think of it.
To be honest, after buying this book and seeing how long it is, I just don't want to read it...I am genuinely uncomfortable with it's length and would never buy a book like this on my own...
Since he started talking about my issues without allowing me to get really involved with it and talk about it, and recommending a book before he even really got to know me...it just kinda bothers me, if I was with him for some time and feeling like we are making progress I would happily buy this book...but day 1...I don't know...
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2021.10.18 06:12 Allatos Rate my drip choice 1-10
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2021.10.18 06:12 Lurkerish28 My kid all of a sudden told me he wants to major in Electrical Engineering and
I'm not sure this is something I should let him try and study. He has a disability in math, can barely keep up with his missing assignments, his grades are mostly As but he's got a C and D. He's a Freshman in high school and his mother who lives miles away visited him and told him that her SO could get him a job in engineering like it was that easy. All of this is so random and hoping it's just a phase but I don't want to be the parent to tell him he can't try something.
Do I stop him or not? He'll be applying for the course through running start his junior year of high school but I don't even know if it's that easy to be accepted into the course.
What should he expect if he does get accepted in? Do you have to be a genius in math? I've read a lot of stuff with majoring in Engineering and it doesn't sound fun.
He legit went from wanting to join the Army to this. It's cool and everything but I'd hate for him to join something he might not succeed in, very quickly.
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2021.10.18 06:12 letsgetpizzas Ran my first 5K race today!
2021.10.18 06:12 Stuffstuff1 Love this 1964 worlds fair flag!
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2021.10.18 06:12 virginiadude16 High Wattage: TJ vs the birds
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2021.10.18 06:12 superbloggity it's like he can see right through me
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2021.10.18 06:12 SayYourMomILoveHer It's not meme it's the truth
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2021.10.18 06:12 Boba_glitch123 Help-
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